Since this is a non-political week and you are not cheerful two nights before Christmas eve, i figured i answer you and try to cheer you as much as possible
So your question was :
Guys have you ever been around someone who acts like he/she is always right and you are always wrong and that unless you follow their advices and orders you are doomed to misery! If so can you please enlighten me what someone can do in these circumstances?
I am quite sure each of us knows at least one person who behaves like you described it, only difference is how close this person is and how influential is he in your life. Having a companion (husband/wife, bf/gf) who acts this way is the “worst” case scenario, having a family member that way is least problematic (unless they are your folks) and having a friend that way is the easiest of the three options.
What you are talking about is basically stubbornness, a characteristic unfortunatelly very common among Lebanese. “I am right cause i said so” wou “chou fahhamak inta” wou “sadde2ne ba3rif a7san minnak” and all those are simply signs of weaknesses and not strenghs.
Whomever doesnt accept to listen to others and wants to impose his opinion all the time and thinks its for the best of people close to him/her has a trust issue and doubts himself more than you think. By Being strict and firm, he/she builds walls to protect himself/herself and appear as confident while the reality is totally different.
How to behave in such circumstances cannot be resumed in one way, as every situation requires a different approach, but you must confront that person in all cases, as it is the only way to get somewhere. You cant accept things as they are, as this could harm you and the person and whatever relation connects you.
I understand you feel frustration but refuse to confront that person in order not to hurt him maybe or direspect him, or you are not brave enough to do so, but you must do it, not by reacting and yelling, but by rational responses and comprehensive but firm attitude.
If he/she cares about you, that person will definitly change its attitude.
If not, i guess you should do things your way if its a family member, see him/her less if he/she’s a friend, and seriously rethink about your relation if its not too late.
Remember its not always about what your heart tells you, for me everything is about reason and only reason, cause the heart shows you roads, but the mind drives you to the destination …
Now smile lanchouf and tell us chou baddik for Christmas